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at 4:36 PM

"Man"

are one who can never be contented...

Many men who love their partners and have great sex at home never turn down an opportunity for a bit on the side if they think they can get away with it.

In one study,

56 percent of cheating men surveyed said their marriages were very happy.

and you know what...

Some people cheat on "perfect" partners because they're sick of perfection.

This one is almost always true.

If your partner's cheated on almost everyone they've been out with—and nothing has happened to make them rethink their behavior—they'll almost certainly do the same to you.

Emotional infidelity—

deep, passionate connections between people who often aren't even aware they've crossed the line from platonic friendship to romantic love—

is the biggest threat a marriage can face.

More than 80 percent of unfaithful people have affairs with someone who'd started out as "just a friend," very often a workmate.

In fact, one study showed that 50 percent of unfaithful women and 62 percent of unfaithful men were involved with someone at work.

Intense but invisible, erotic but unconsumed, emotional infidelity is dangerous, addictive and way too easy to get away with.

If you're often pretending you're single when you're not; if you send secret texts or emails; if you share intimate details of your life with people you fancy and lie to your partner about seeing them,

you're an emotional cheater.

Can you imagine a couple ever saying Boy, that affair was the best thing to ever happen to us?

That's because you won't.

Affairs usually involve breaking a vow, lying on a regular basis and betraying trust.

Even those who survive find the relationship tinged with resentment, sadness and guilt.

Having said that, looking at the reasons why the person strayed can help piece together what's left of what you had before.

People often have affairs to reinvent themselves or, more accurately, to be the person they think they want to be.

A long-term partner is likely to see you as the person you were when you met, rather than the person you've become, or the person you want to become.

An affair gives you the chance to start over.

That's why, after an affair, it's important to ask,

"Who were you with that person? How can you be that person with me?"

"she's often seeking a potential soul mate; he's just having fun."

With Love,

Regina

at 1:05 PM

Regina's @ work

and feeling dreadfully bored...

Reports, reports and reports....

Tons of it....

Reports on Complain cases, Mystery shopping, and other misc stuffs...

Neverending of incoming mails...

....................................

I am trying extremely hard to transform myself...

into the past old me that i've always been missing...

Then PROBABLY i will not find myself being overly dependent on him...

HOPEFULLY it will contribute some improvement to our relationship

We are coming to a year...in two weeks time...

will he be celebrating this special day with me?

I don't think i will be able to handle another disappointment...

With Love,

Regina

at 4:13 PM

Extremely gloomy...

Nothing about the weather but me

After undergoing that torturous eye diagnosis yesterday,

all i need was him to be by me...

He was away in Hosburg for his 2 days off-shore fishing...

I release the diagnose result to him yesterday (by sms-es)...

Although it (diagnose result) had a huge impact on me, i was still acting like everything was fine....

Reason being, not to spoil his "long-waited" fishing trip...

Finally, he's back today...

He rang me and the first word that came out of his mouth hurts me deep right in my heart...

Nothing concerning about the diagnose result but interrogatting me on why didn't i attend work...

I told him i was on MC and he assume i did that on purpose (so i could spend my day with him instead)...

Well that's pretty childish...

ok then we sort of quarrelled (by sms-es)

And well as usual, i cried...

Doctor warned me not to further provoke my eyes...

I believe that crying (secretly) throughout the night before has done enough damages...

I thought i could find myself a reason to be HAPPY (as he's back in town and i could see him soon)...

but it doesn't seems so...yet worse...

I looked through those sms-es again and realised throughout there's none a single word of concern from him...

My heart almost died...

even someone whom i don't really know that well (on facebook) would comment on my status, showing concern about the shitty-situation that i m in currently....

Now...

Even the sky's crying...

The weather speak of my feelings...

*Emotionally unbalanced*

I am so lost...I have no one to speak to...

that's why i blogged once again...

"Envy" is a word that i would never allowed myself to experience...

Yes people used to envy about my love life...

about my positive perception in life...

about the knowledge i possess...

almost everything about me...

I was a proud girl in within...

But now i m a total loser...and i begin to envy others...

especially about their love life...

how could they possibly find happiness in love while i could only see darkness?

I didn't want to face the fact...and i have been denying it...

But the fact is indeed stronger than i could have been...

I MISS MYSELF............

P/s: Love, we are coming to a year...

Yes, you are the creator of HOPE

and did you realised that you are too, the destroyer of HOPE?

"You read about others but never me"

With Love,

Regina

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at 4:36 PM

"Man"

are one who can never be contented...

Many men who love their partners and have great sex at home never turn down an opportunity for a bit on the side if they think they can get away with it.

In one study,

56 percent of cheating men surveyed said their marriages were very happy.

and you know what...

Some people cheat on "perfect" partners because they're sick of perfection.

This one is almost always true.

If your partner's cheated on almost everyone they've been out with—and nothing has happened to make them rethink their behavior—they'll almost certainly do the same to you.

Emotional infidelity—

deep, passionate connections between people who often aren't even aware they've crossed the line from platonic friendship to romantic love—

is the biggest threat a marriage can face.

More than 80 percent of unfaithful people have affairs with someone who'd started out as "just a friend," very often a workmate.

In fact, one study showed that 50 percent of unfaithful women and 62 percent of unfaithful men were involved with someone at work.

Intense but invisible, erotic but unconsumed, emotional infidelity is dangerous, addictive and way too easy to get away with.

you're an emotional cheater.

Can you imagine a couple ever saying Boy, that affair was the best thing to ever happen to us?

That's because you won't.

Affairs usually involve breaking a vow, lying on a regular basis and betraying trust.

Even those who survive find the relationship tinged with resentment, sadness and guilt.

Having said that, looking at the reasons why the person strayed can help piece together what's left of what you had before.

People often have affairs to reinvent themselves or, more accurately, to be the person they think they want to be.

A long-term partner is likely to see you as the person you were when you met, rather than the person you've become, or the person you want to become.

An affair gives you the chance to start over.

That's why, after an affair, it's important to ask,

"Who were you with that person? How can you be that person with me?"

"she's often seeking a potential soul mate; he's just having fun."

With Love,

Regina

at 1:05 PM

Regina's @ work

and feeling dreadfully bored...

Reports, reports and reports....

Tons of it....

Reports on Complain cases, Mystery shopping, and other misc stuffs...

Neverending of incoming mails...

....................................

I am trying extremely hard to transform myself...

into the past old me that i've always been missing...

Then PROBABLY i will not find myself being overly dependent on him...

HOPEFULLY it will contribute some improvement to our relationship

We are coming to a year...in two weeks time...

will he be celebrating this special day with me?

I don't think i will be able to handle another disappointment...

With Love,

Regina

at 4:13 PM

Extremely gloomy...

Nothing about the weather but me

After undergoing that torturous eye diagnosis yesterday,

all i need was him to be by me...

He was away in Hosburg for his 2 days off-shore fishing...

I release the diagnose result to him yesterday (by sms-es)...

Although it (diagnose result) had a huge impact on me, i was still acting like everything was fine....

Reason being, not to spoil his "long-waited" fishing trip...

Finally, he's back today...

He rang me and the first word that came out of his mouth hurts me deep right in my heart...

Nothing concerning about the diagnose result but interrogatting me on why didn't i attend work...

I told him i was on MC and he assume i did that on purpose (so i could spend my day with him instead)...

Well that's pretty childish...

ok then we sort of quarrelled (by sms-es)

And well as usual, i cried...

Doctor warned me not to further provoke my eyes...

I believe that crying (secretly) throughout the night before has done enough damages...

I thought i could find myself a reason to be HAPPY (as he's back in town and i could see him soon)...

but it doesn't seems so...yet worse...

I looked through those sms-es again and realised throughout there's none a single word of concern from him...

My heart almost died...

even someone whom i don't really know that well (on facebook) would comment on my status, showing concern about the shitty-situation that i m in currently....

Now...

Even the sky's crying...

The weather speak of my feelings...

*Emotionally unbalanced*

I am so lost...I have no one to speak to...

that's why i blogged once again...

"Envy" is a word that i would never allowed myself to experience...

Yes people used to envy about my love life...

about my positive perception in life...

about the knowledge i possess...

almost everything about me...

I was a proud girl in within...

But now i m a total loser...and i begin to envy others...

especially about their love life...

how could they possibly find happiness in love while i could only see darkness?

I didn't want to face the fact...and i have been denying it...

But the fact is indeed stronger than i could have been...

I MISS MYSELF............

P/s: Love, we are coming to a year...

Yes, you are the creator of HOPE

and did you realised that you are too, the destroyer of HOPE?

"You read about others but never me"

With Love,

Regina