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at 10:13 AM

Complication's never easy, especially when it involves yourself....
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Back to lonely self once again, but fret not, career is what matters most to me now.
What's best about building a career is that...
it keeps most of my time occupied,
giving me a goal to move forward,
strengthen my perseverance and determination,
unleashes the abilities and capabilities in me that i have not known of....

Best of all,
the sense of satisfication after achieving the goals in the shortest time
is irreplaceable =)

With Love,

Regina

Men aren't the only ones straying at 10:05 AM

Here's 10 reason why women cheat

They Seek Revenge -- if he does cheat, she may go cheat for revenge -- even if she doesn’t really want to -- so he understands how much it hurts. And, surprise, it may work. “Men are not emotional so they usually can't feel the same pain unless it is done back to them.Women feel cheating is a way to even the score.” That probably won't help to heal the relationship. But once a man cheats, it’s a whole different ballgame. It feels as if the rules a woman has been following are no longer relevant or valid.

For The Thrill Of It -- An affair is a stress-busting, thrill-seeking, self-medicating high. And, while a woman may cheat to see if she can get away with it, she often doesn’t really want to get caught, She just wants the bird in her hand and the one in the bush -- and she’s deluded into thinking that she really can have both. But this reason is perhaps less common than others. [A woman] will usually try to let her husband know that there is a problem first, if he fails to address them, ignores her, or takes her complaint lightly, she may then cheat because feels she has no other choice.

For The Ego Boost -- When women cheat with other men, the other men usually compliment them and make them feel sexy in ways their current partner isn't doing. Cheating often occurs in relationships where she isn't feeling connected emotionally to her current partner. So husbands beware if your wives feel unloved, underappreciated or even ignored. If a wife feels neglected or taken for granted by her husband, she becomes very vulnerable and can very easily succumb to having an affair, emotional or physical -- with a man who makes her feel special, desired. When the relationship is strained, with both partners "bruising one another's egos left and right and criticism flying," that can also open the door to double-timing.

To Find A Love Connection -- Are you lovers or roommates? Over time, it can be tough to tell -- and you long for the early stages of love. That’s when you have this wonderful sense of being chosen. Long-term relationships are much different. Those lovely chemicals that had flooded your brain when you first met have now faded. That downward slide isn’t inevitable, though, if you put the work in. Couples must rekindle the romance magic on a daily and weekly basis. It is important to keep recreating the same chemicals as when they first fell in love, by using attachment skills, like the 30-second kiss and the 20-second hug, which raise the endorphin levels. And here’s a surprise: A fight-free marriage isn’t always a stronger marriage. Conflict creates passion. A polite marriage is higher in adultery than a marriage with arguments.

They Want To Get Caught -- Most women cheat as an escape hatch. And this is especially true of married mothers. If the woman has children, she has a hard time leaving the husband without the feeling of guilt. But that subsides if she’s not the one who’s initiating the break-up. The affair is a way to alleviate the feeling of stress and guilt, as the husband may leave her, they calls it an “exit affair,” intended to terminate the marriage. Men are much less tolerant than women when it comes to infidelity and are less likely to forgive a cheating wife. A husband who has been cheated on is much more likely to end his marriage than to give his cheating wife a second chance.

They're Bored with Their Sex Life -- Sex life? What sex life? Couples who've been together a long time often complain that their sex life has become staid or stale. That may prompt some women to look elsewhere to satisfy their urges. Sometimes women will cheat because they feel that there is no spontaneity in their relationship anymore. Sexual boredom may be one manifestation of that. A desire for more frequent or different types of sex may also lead to affairs among younger women. Wives in their early 20s or younger may cheat for the same type of sexual reasons as men; they want more frequent sex, a different type of sex, or they are curious about what it would be like to have sex with a particular man or wonder what it would be like to have sex with someone other than their own husband. Before stepping out, though, recommends trying to spice up your sex life with your partner. Try something new in the bedroom or get a little creative. Really push your limits. A bikini wax and a strip tease worked wonders for my sex life.

They Feel Lonely -- Remember when you couldn’t believe you’d found someone who also owned the same rare record, shared your affinity for foosball and with whom you could always trade entrées? If a woman feels that she and her husband no longer have anything in common, she may find herself drawn into an emotional affair with someone who shares similar interests. However, an emotional affair can quickly progress to the next level and become a sexual affair. Many women cheat to fill a void. Cheating alleviates the feelings of loneliness and emptiness. It is a bio-chemical craving for connection.

They Want To Relive Their Past -- Sometimes going through one's Little Black Book is an easy way to find a sex partner who will temporarily make them feel better. But while ex-boyfriends may be familiar territory, they’re not necessarily repairmen. This solution never, ever lasts. It’s often not really about that ex-boyfriend, but rather about who the woman was when she was with him. Reverting to her youth makes her feel alive again. It makes her feel younger, more carefree, sexier and more attractive.

Because Of A Near-Death Experience -- A near-death experience often causes women to rethink things. They look at their lives in greater depth, as they've been reminded of their own mortality. It's not only sudden accidents that qualify, but potentially deadly illnesses that progress over time. [Breast cancer, for example] can make women question every part of their lives; suddenly they are very aware of their own mortality. To make matters worse, [they may feel] their spouses have let them down when they needed them most. Maybe he wasn’t supportive. Maybe he stopped initiating sex. Whatever it was, these women are wounded and they look outside of the marriage for an emotional Band-aid. If they feel like their time is limited, they want to make the most of the time they have, whether or not it’s with the man they married.

For Attention or Adventure -- Women can feel taken for granted, working 30 hours at home -- doing the cleaning, taking care of children ... on top of their own full-time day job. They need to feel valued and crave validation. And they also seek a little excitement now and then. A woman in a boring or mundane marriage is easy prey for the ‘bad boy’ type. If you look at the top reasons why women cheat, most of them are situations that could easily be remedied by a loving, caring, attentive, and cooperative husband.

***A happily married woman, who has a good relationship with her husband, will not cheat.***

With Love,

Regina

What Guys Are Looking For.... at 3:50 PM

Miss Sweet is a woman who's positive, content with her life, always upbeat -- and just a blast to be around. She's a genuine person without a bitch bone in her body. She's always truly happy to see you and you find yourself looking forward to spending time with her. Miss Sweets are usually snapped up out of the dating market right away, so they're pretty rare. But if you can find one, you've got a real treasure on your hands.

This type of woman is a true feminist -- not one of the radical man-haters, or the hypocritical pseudo-feminists who think that equality means "I demand equal rights and an equal salary, but a man still has to pay for me." The Miss Equalitys of the world genuinely like men, and understand that equality means equality across the board, from holding the door open to fighting on the front lines. They believe that a should be a 50/50 partnership, and are more than willing to shoulder their half of the responsibilities and dating expenses -- just because it's the right thing to do.

You should be so lucky to encounter one of these! Miss Sexual loves men and loves sex -- and makes no bones about it. She's not selling it, she's not using it as a tool to manipulate men -- she just naturally craves it. Miss Sexual is not to be confused with a nymphomaniac, who suffers from psychological problems -- rather, she has somehow bypassed the female societal training of auctioning off the use of her vagina to the highest bidder. For this reason, most other women hate her, because she's giving it away free of charge. But men love her because she's a free spirit who's actually honest about her sex drive. Very rare, but worth searching the ends of the earth for.

Closely aligned with Miss Sweet, Miss Best Friend is another joy to be around. She's the kind of woman you're totally in sync with -- you like the same things, watch the same TV shows, enjoy going to the same places. You can spend five minutes with her and think you've known her for years. She's always on your side, laughs at all your jokes and calls you just to say "hi" because she genuinely misses you. She's great just to hang with. A word of warning, though -- with Miss Best Friend, you have to make your sexual interest known from day one because if she gets it into her head that you are going to be "just friends," it's almost impossible to change her mind.

This is the type of woman who knows how to communicate. With Miss Straightforward, there are no, no expecting men to be mind readers, no behavior based on ridiculous, female-biased advice from articles in Cosmo or The Rules. Miss Straightforward will pick up the phone and ask you out. She will do what she says she will do -- not say one thing and do just the opposite. Although she may be blunt at times, at least you'll know where you stand and you'll never have to spend hours trying to decode contradictory or emotion-based female behavior.

This is a good woman to find if you don't have a lot of time to invest in a relationship or you're the type of guy who needs a lot of space. Miss Independent has a real life of her own and is happily going in her own positive direction. She's the type who wants a man in her life, but doesn't need a man in her life. And she certainly isn't looking for men to solve all her problems or blame when things don't go her way.

While many women are chomping at the bit to get married, Miss No Pressure hasn't fallen prey to any such agenda. She's happy just to be with you. So you don't get any "Where is our relationship going?" or hint-dropping about the future or window-shopping at the jewelry store. She may want to get married at some point, but she's in no hurry -- she thinks that if it happens, it will just happen naturally.

With Love,

Regina

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Men aren't the only ones straying at 10:05 AM

Here's 10 reason why women cheat

They Seek Revenge -- if he does cheat, she may go cheat for revenge -- even if she doesn’t really want to -- so he understands how much it hurts. And, surprise, it may work. “Men are not emotional so they usually can't feel the same pain unless it is done back to them.Women feel cheating is a way to even the score.” That probably won't help to heal the relationship. But once a man cheats, it’s a whole different ballgame. It feels as if the rules a woman has been following are no longer relevant or valid.

For The Thrill Of It -- An affair is a stress-busting, thrill-seeking, self-medicating high. And, while a woman may cheat to see if she can get away with it, she often doesn’t really want to get caught, She just wants the bird in her hand and the one in the bush -- and she’s deluded into thinking that she really can have both. But this reason is perhaps less common than others. [A woman] will usually try to let her husband know that there is a problem first, if he fails to address them, ignores her, or takes her complaint lightly, she may then cheat because feels she has no other choice.

For The Ego Boost -- When women cheat with other men, the other men usually compliment them and make them feel sexy in ways their current partner isn't doing. Cheating often occurs in relationships where she isn't feeling connected emotionally to her current partner. So husbands beware if your wives feel unloved, underappreciated or even ignored. If a wife feels neglected or taken for granted by her husband, she becomes very vulnerable and can very easily succumb to having an affair, emotional or physical -- with a man who makes her feel special, desired. When the relationship is strained, with both partners "bruising one another's egos left and right and criticism flying," that can also open the door to double-timing.

To Find A Love Connection -- Are you lovers or roommates? Over time, it can be tough to tell -- and you long for the early stages of love. That’s when you have this wonderful sense of being chosen. Long-term relationships are much different. Those lovely chemicals that had flooded your brain when you first met have now faded. That downward slide isn’t inevitable, though, if you put the work in. Couples must rekindle the romance magic on a daily and weekly basis. It is important to keep recreating the same chemicals as when they first fell in love, by using attachment skills, like the 30-second kiss and the 20-second hug, which raise the endorphin levels. And here’s a surprise: A fight-free marriage isn’t always a stronger marriage. Conflict creates passion. A polite marriage is higher in adultery than a marriage with arguments.

They Want To Get Caught -- Most women cheat as an escape hatch. And this is especially true of married mothers. If the woman has children, she has a hard time leaving the husband without the feeling of guilt. But that subsides if she’s not the one who’s initiating the break-up. The affair is a way to alleviate the feeling of stress and guilt, as the husband may leave her, they calls it an “exit affair,” intended to terminate the marriage. Men are much less tolerant than women when it comes to infidelity and are less likely to forgive a cheating wife. A husband who has been cheated on is much more likely to end his marriage than to give his cheating wife a second chance.

They're Bored with Their Sex Life -- Sex life? What sex life? Couples who've been together a long time often complain that their sex life has become staid or stale. That may prompt some women to look elsewhere to satisfy their urges. Sometimes women will cheat because they feel that there is no spontaneity in their relationship anymore. Sexual boredom may be one manifestation of that. A desire for more frequent or different types of sex may also lead to affairs among younger women. Wives in their early 20s or younger may cheat for the same type of sexual reasons as men; they want more frequent sex, a different type of sex, or they are curious about what it would be like to have sex with a particular man or wonder what it would be like to have sex with someone other than their own husband. Before stepping out, though, recommends trying to spice up your sex life with your partner. Try something new in the bedroom or get a little creative. Really push your limits. A bikini wax and a strip tease worked wonders for my sex life.

They Feel Lonely -- Remember when you couldn’t believe you’d found someone who also owned the same rare record, shared your affinity for foosball and with whom you could always trade entrées? If a woman feels that she and her husband no longer have anything in common, she may find herself drawn into an emotional affair with someone who shares similar interests. However, an emotional affair can quickly progress to the next level and become a sexual affair. Many women cheat to fill a void. Cheating alleviates the feelings of loneliness and emptiness. It is a bio-chemical craving for connection.

They Want To Relive Their Past -- Sometimes going through one's Little Black Book is an easy way to find a sex partner who will temporarily make them feel better. But while ex-boyfriends may be familiar territory, they’re not necessarily repairmen. This solution never, ever lasts. It’s often not really about that ex-boyfriend, but rather about who the woman was when she was with him. Reverting to her youth makes her feel alive again. It makes her feel younger, more carefree, sexier and more attractive.

Because Of A Near-Death Experience -- A near-death experience often causes women to rethink things. They look at their lives in greater depth, as they've been reminded of their own mortality. It's not only sudden accidents that qualify, but potentially deadly illnesses that progress over time. [Breast cancer, for example] can make women question every part of their lives; suddenly they are very aware of their own mortality. To make matters worse, [they may feel] their spouses have let them down when they needed them most. Maybe he wasn’t supportive. Maybe he stopped initiating sex. Whatever it was, these women are wounded and they look outside of the marriage for an emotional Band-aid. If they feel like their time is limited, they want to make the most of the time they have, whether or not it’s with the man they married.

For Attention or Adventure -- Women can feel taken for granted, working 30 hours at home -- doing the cleaning, taking care of children ... on top of their own full-time day job. They need to feel valued and crave validation. And they also seek a little excitement now and then. A woman in a boring or mundane marriage is easy prey for the ‘bad boy’ type. If you look at the top reasons why women cheat, most of them are situations that could easily be remedied by a loving, caring, attentive, and cooperative husband.

***A happily married woman, who has a good relationship with her husband, will not cheat.***

With Love,

Regina

What Guys Are Looking For.... at 3:50 PM

With Love,

Regina

Miss Sweet

Miss Equality

Miss Sexual

Miss Best Friend

Miss Straightforward

Miss Independent

Miss No Pressure

Miss Secure

Miss Personality

Miss Low-Maintenance

Miss Right for You

Miss Sweet

Miss Equality

Miss Sexual

Miss Best Friend

Miss Straightforward

Miss Independent

Miss No Pressure

Miss Secure

Miss Personality

Miss Low-Maintenance

Miss Right for You